In retirement, especially when there were no external obligations, I've often felt that I "wasted my day," or "got nothing done." That wasn't making me happy at all.
So even though my bedtime and the nightly news approach, I'm taking a different point of view.
I've known since grad school that FEELINGS DON'T = REALITY. So I did a bit of reality testing by listing what I DID get done.
- coordinated flight times for a Florida trip with a friend
- booked airline tickets
- let friend know the travel times
- used a discount travel service (which felt daring and risky)
- paid three bills on line
- contacted bank as to why my credit card didn't work (I'd miss-typed the CVV # and the bank shut down the card)
- culled email and read the rest
- read for pleasure
- read a book study book and took notes
- read two lessons on better oil painting
- cleaned kitchen after darling husband made Caesar salad for dinner
But monitoring what I DID do makes me feel much better and determined to get some of those wished for activities worked in. Tomorrow.
For now it's off to dreamland. I had a sufficient amount of "me" time to be willing to go to bed. And more sleep will most likely give me an energy boost that will help with those additional activities.
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Jim Shore's Angel of Persistence |
What have you done that shows persistence?
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